Seduction Tips for Women

Most of us know that women want to be treated like ladies, we feel drawn to men who make us feel feminine. What we don't all know, however, is that men want to be treated like men, just as much as women want to be treated like ladies. "When a woman makes a man feel masculine, his body is filled with the fire of desire to get close...he wants to be with her, to get to know her, and, in some magical manner, his life suddenly has more meaning.", says John Gray, author of Mars and Venus on a Date. To the degree that a woman makes a man feel masculine, he will be attracted to her.

The key to making men feel like men is our feminine energy. Just as women feel more feminine in the presence of a man who has a strong masculine energy, men feel drawn to women with a strong feminine energy. This woman makes them feel like more of a man.

I believe that all women are capable of possessing this feminine energy and radiance. For some it is merely a matter of getting in touch with the feminine characteristics they already have within themselves.

A feminine woman will ask for a man's help when she needs it and appreciate the support he gives, she is open to dating and getting to know men, she will let a man take care of her while on a date and not worry that she will seem 'weak' or 'passive', she lets men treat her like a lady and expects respect from everyone. Ultimately this feminine energy says: "I am open to getting to know you, you could be the one to make me happy. I need you".

Oh my, do you really need a man? I used to be afraid to admit that "I need a man", I did not want to come across as dependent on men, or as if I could not function without a man in my life. A lot of women are so afraid to admit that they need a man that they deny the need all together and in effect, lose touch with their feminity. Needing a man does not mean that you are nothing without a man or that you can not function in life without a man. After watching a seminar by John Gray, I now take a different perspective on this phrase.

Ask yourself: Do I long for a someone in my life who loves me unconditionally? Do I need to be hugged? Do I ultimately want the devotion of someone who loves me for me? Do I want to be adored? Do I crave affection and cuddling? Do I long for someone to care about me and be happy to see me at the end of the day? Do I want someone in my life who will let me cry on their shoulder when I am sad and listen when I have a bad day? Do I dream of being with someone who is my bestfriend and lover? Do I need a man to experience all of these things to the fullest? Do I need a man?

The day I watched John Gray's seminar I realized that I could say "I need a man" without apprehension. This has given me a whole new persective on dating and the opposite sex, and it will do the same for you. Everyone craves affection and love, it is part of human nature. There is nothing wrong with needing these things and knowing that it feels best when coming from a special man in our lives.

A man wants to be our knight in shining armour, he wants to cheer us up when we are sad and support us when we need help. The woman who gives him this golden opportunity is most attractive in his eyes.