Seduction Tips for Men

Break The Ice

You first need to break the ice by introducing yourself and talking to her. The best thing to do is to simply relax, introduce yourself, smile and get chatting. Don't try to be smart or too cool - just be yourself. Introduce yourself, smile and make a comment or ask a question.

Establish Rapport

If you like a girl and she maybe also likes you, there is always a bit of nervous tension. Be confident and use body language and your conversational skills to get the relationship started. Your objective is to get her to relax and enjoy your company. Make sure that she wants to talk to you.

Gain Her Trust

No girl wants to go out with a weirdo, so you have to gain her trust. Your objective is to find something in common so that she will know that you're OK and she can trust you. Best is to know a mutual friend or share a common interest. It may sound difficult, but being in the same place, at the same time has to mean that there is something you have in common. As soon as your credentials have been established you are OK.

Tell Her How You Feel

Women classify guys that they like as potential lovers or as potential friends. Let her know you are a potential lover. Pay her compliments about her looks (as a beautiful woman) and hold her gaze for a few seconds longer than a friend would. She must know that you think she is sexy.

Physical Contact

This is when you finally get to touch her. Don't lunge forward and stick your tongue down her throat! Hold her hand and pay her a compliment. Test her reaction and take it slowly, one step at a time. Lean forward, put your hand on her shoulder and softly wisper a compliment in her ear. Remember you are progressively moving into her personal space and testing her reaction to it.

Get Intimate

You have to move confidently. You have tested her positive reactions to your contact, you have read her body language. But it's still not time to stick your tongue down her throat. A soft kiss on the neck moving closer to her ear will turn her on much more. Move slowly, and confidently, telling her that she smells and feels lovely and sexy... Get it? Don't rush her. Make her wait for it...