How to Compliment Men

• Select an activity he does that he feels proud of and show interest. Could be a sport he plays, a hobby, personal career, his job, etc. If you want to know more, ask him. If you want to see him play football, go watch one of his games. If something bores you, don't pretend to be interested, just to please him.


• Admire him. If you try you can find something admirable about every person. So, find something about him that you really like and compliment him on that. Could be his kindly personality, his romanticism, his intelligence, etc.


• Don't be shy about laughing, laugh at his jokes. Be careful, you'll annoy him for sure if you turn into a giggling teenager whenever he speaks,he'll enjoy your company if you naturally see the humor or sarcasm in his jokes .


• Compliment him on a well done job. Did he solve a big problem at work? Did he fix the leaky faucet in the bathroom? Handle a crisis well? Tell him he did a good job, and compliment something specific about what he did. For example, if he renovated the bathroom tell him how much you like the new cupbords he made.


• Appreciate what he does for you. If he takes you out for dating, tell him how good the food is, how nice the restaurant is, how much you are enjoying yourself, anything positive about the time you spend together is good.
  Even if the night doesn't go as planned, and all seems ruined...look on the bright side, tell him you enjoyed spending time with him (only if you did). You will come across as super positive and everyone wants to be around positive people.


• Tell him he looks good. Find something about his appearance that you really like and point it out to him. His nice lips, sexy legs, or friendly smile.


• Compliment his skills/technique in bed. It seems to be general knowledge that men love when a woman gives them sexual compliments. Some women are shy about this, but they shouldn't be, a great deal of a man's sexual satisfaction comes from knowing that he is satisfying his partner.


• If he works out compliment his great posture, or even better - if he has great posture ask him if he works out. Compliment his muscle control, his endurance, etc. Be careful, it's easy to go too far with this, don't just say things to flatter him, and don't go on and on about how big his muscles are. A simple comment that you're impressed by how well he does his exercises is fine.


• Ask him for help. If he is at the gym doing the leg press and you don't know how to use it, go ask him to show you. If your car hasn't been working, ask if he would look at it. The point here is that he gets to be the expert, by helping you he feels smart and competent, and complimented.


• Compliment his personal relationship skills. This is great because if you say something like: "I really like when you hug me for no reason" he will feel happy because you are pleased by him, and so he will do more of what he knows pleases you. You both benefit from this. Compliment his listening skills, how understanding he is, how generous he is, take notice of all the sweet romantic things he does for you, etc.